Bewitching smile of her…

 Bewitching smile of her…

A pleasant smile flow on my face suddenly when I saw her she had been dancing with her two years baby with band baja barati, she was not an important or semi important person for any one for them they were the part of  barati….but she was happy…everybody were well decorated in barat with heavy sari, gown and artificial heavy ornament but she was just in simple, old suti sari..And as a jewelry.. She had just a lal bindiya and oily decorated hair...weak figure..After observing her I could know that her adherence was ubiquitous for her..Although she was dancing and moving but i noticed she was reclusive and secluded she was just doing everything for the happiness of her half necked baby...Suddenly she sat in the front of my home and barati were busy in dancing she became tired after enjoyment because she is not habitual for any type of music, dance and happiness…I asked her  I would like to explain that I got an opportunity to talk with her because she was the centre of my attraction from starting …she told me  ( are bachhi jangal jaike ke ba lakdi liyawe aaj gaini han nahi..kahana kaise bani..aur bachwa jidd kare lagal ta aa gaini..aur nach lehnni ta dehwa jaise ghumat baa b pahade par jayal bada dikakat hoi) means she was not feeling well after dancing..She just came in this ceremony for the happiness of her child and now she would have to go jangal to collect dry woods for to prepare evening food..and to go there was become very much difficult for her..But still she was smiling…I cannot explain her sweet and innocent smile I do not have words..Now whenever I saw her we both smile to see to each other we have developed a relation of smile.I Am very much inspired to her and her niches.She could be ideal for any they people have everything except smile.She has a very difficult situation but she always disseminates smile…her smile really there are something in her smile…one thing also want include at here I was also not the part of barati just watching everything from the front of my home..and without any pre-information got such a sweet relationship can named smile friend. Her smile always inhale  a deep sense of happiness in myself.

A Cup of tea...

Today when early in the morning my maa offered me a cup of tea when i was in rajai..suddenly i remembered those days when i was in Bhopal and i did not have time to prepare food and tea for me  due to the hectic schedule of my first job in "Debate" ...to take a cup of tea was as difficult for me like to win a world war..i can not pass a single day without tea..from during Monday to Saturday i used to take tea on the way  mostly with my some friends but when Sunday came everybody like to take rest but this situation had become the cause of my unrest..i can not explain the importance and necessity of tea in my life...

Chorus of Youths and Virgins

Chorus of Youths and Virgins

Semichorus.
Oh Tyrant Love! hast thou possest
The prudent, learn'd, and virtuous breast?
Wisdom and wit in vain reclaim,
And Arts but soften us to feel thy flame.
Love, soft intruder, enters here,
But ent'ring learns to be sincere.
Marcus with blushes owns he loves,
And Brutus tenderly reproves.
Why, Virtue, dost thou blame desire,
Which Nature has imprest?
Why, Nature, dost thou soonest fire
The mild and gen'rous breast?

Chorus.
Love's purer flames the Gods approve;
The Gods and Brutus bent to love:
Brutus for absent Portia sighs,
And sterner Cassius melts at Junia's eyes.
What is loose love? a transient gust,
Spent in a sudden storm of lust,
A vapour fed from wild desire,
A wand'ring, self-consuming fire,
But Hymen's kinder flames unite;
And burn for ever one;
Chaste as cold Cynthia's virgin light,
Productive as the Sun.

Semichorus.
Oh source of ev'ry social tie,
United wish, and mutual joy!
What various joys on one attend,
As son, as father, brother husband, friend?
Whether his hoary sire he spies,
While thousand grateful thoughts arise;
Or meets his spouse's fonder eye;
Or views his smiling progeny;
What tender passions take their turns,
What home-felt raptures move?
His heart now melts, now leaps, now burns,
With rev'rence, hope, and love.

Chorus.
Hence guilty joys, distastes, surmises,
Hence false tears, deceits, disguises,
Dangers, doubts, delays, surprises;
Fires that scorch, yet dare not shine
Purest love's unwasting treasure,
Constant faith, fair hope, long leisure,
Days of ease, and nights of pleasure;
Sacred Hymen! these are thine. 

Alexander Pope

Excess of everything is bad

We cannot deny the role of book in our life although at present brook is more dominant in the way of getting information and knowledge, to get useful and need able information to brook is quite easy than book.  Spreading scenario of social networking sites are keen responsible to spread the fashion of brook. Now people have stopped to write by pen and page they use computer very easily for their writing purpose as well as reading purpose also.  Although use of computer and internet has been getting dominated in our life style but book has its own status we cannot make to us as satisfied to brook than book provides us as mental and emotional satisfaction both.

Reading book has been considering as a tradition of the society of educated people for a long time, collection of books show the enhancement of academic culture of a particular person and family still while we observing this fact that now computer is replacing the role of book little bit. Youth and teenagers do not want to waste their time in the reading of whole book except this they search their particular topic as per their need by search engine. Due to the vast availability of data people have become little bit confuse sometimes they become confuse to choose authentic source of data.

It is rightly said that good habits and values can best be inculcated in childhood. Hence, the practice of reading book based on various topics. A child is better able to think and critically analyse the skills and strategies that he comes across while reading book, rather than spoon- fed to him, also reading habit of book enhancing the good writing skill of children and youth both, But the enlistment of computer and internet in the life of this new generation day by day make them dependable on these artificial tools of intelligence they prefer to search  thought and  topic as per their need  by search engine rather to think and analyse about that. Day by day we all have been becoming the slave of computer and internet.

Use of computer and internet has become the habit and part of life of new generation they cannot spend their single moment without the absence of electronic gadget, they have started to live in a virtual life rather in emotional and family atmosphere, Providing preference to internet surfing rather to make fun with friends and family has become the trend of the new people of this 21^st century. On the other hand reading books enhance not only the grammar and diction of a person, but also broadens the horizons of knowledge, thereby enriching the inner world of a person. As a result, good readers can easily and effectively communicate both in oral and written with others in efficient way. Such skills are essential for improving an individual’s overall personality and persona in the eyes of the listeners. On the contrary, poor communication skills are not only difficult to understand but also tend to leave a bad impression about the individual. Thus, regular reading books is directly related to the development and improvement of an oral and written communication skills, except this vast use of computer internet now a day’s people have become dependable on computer and internet, they have started to use computer language that is quite harmful in the sense of grammatical mistakes in language, I am not in  against to use of computer and internet but everything has its own limitation people always should remember it, excess of everything is bad so should avoided the access use of computer and internet. To become depended on anything or anyone is not fare so this is a time to reanalysis the use of computer and internet in our work purpose. We have been losing our rationality and the sense analysing anything gradually due to the dependency on computer and become the slave of technology.